Thursday, September 13, 2007

Love and Marriage...

Haha..My second consecutive post on "LOVE"..to clear my stand,
I am writing only on the topics on which I feel I have an
opinion that i need to share with you people..

I think most of us wish to fall in love and majoirity of us do
wanna get married once they are settled. A few of us are
already in love (Few?am I wrong?) and most of them would want
to marry their loved ones (anyone who falls outside these
categories? Plz..I want to Interact with you)..

My take is very clear, marriage and love are two eternally
different things and any attempt to join them is as futile as
extrpolating two parallel lines in the hope that they meet
somewhere..if you wish to join them you have to break one of
the lines..in the same way,you have to compromise with
either love or marriage in your life..luckiest is the person
who don't have to compromise on any of these..reasons:-

* Love is an absoulutely personal Feeling between two persons,
while marriage is a social institution from its very concept in
all the societies globally.

* Love as they say, knows no age,religion,boundaries etc..on the
contrary in marriage, details much more finer than age,religion,
borders are taken into account and people try to find the most
compatible match possible[:) most of the times this is also futile]


Does that mean you shudn't marry the person you love or
only love the one whom you marry??..


The question is wide open for you to ponder over and share your
thoughts..I am very flexible on the above thoughts and given a
proper logic I am willing to change..

5 comments:

shwetank said...

I am in full support of your view about love and marriage my dear bonhomie n to suffice that I would just like to ask the readers of this blog one question..."Does every relationship of love (mind it, other than our family relations) need to end with marriage???"...And if anyone is of the idea to support this motion then ain't we limiting the very meaning and beauty of the eternal word,we call...LOVE!!!

Solitary Reaper said...

very true buddy...The moment you start expecting anything out of ur love is putting a cap on the verticals it can achieve..point taken.."not every love needs to end in marriage" ,atleast not intentionally..only then we'll b able to realise LOVE fully..

Ramblings said...

Yes my dear friends...Love comes out in any age..it is that only thing that can't be made comparable with other....just like we do love many things of life..does it mean we shall try to bind them forever????It is not....If one's heart engorges in love does it mean we yell on making to a marriage end...

Manoranjan said...

Nice to see such thoughts by my frns.. i too agree wat these guys posted .. LOVE is simply
# a strong positive emotion of regard and affection; "his love for his work"; "children need a lot of love"
# any object of warm affection or devotion; "the theater was her first love"; "he has a passion for cock fighting";
# have a great affection or liking for; "I love French food"; "She loves her boss and works hard for him"
# beloved: a beloved person; used as terms of endearment
# get pleasure from; "I love cooking"
# a deep feeling of desire and attraction; "their love left them indifferent to their surroundings"; "she was his first love"
# be enamored or in love with; "She loves her husband deeply"
# a score of zero in tennis or squash; "it was 40 love"
Dats it .... we can"t limit these word LOVE it has an endless journey ....

Manoranjan said...

Thoda jyada to nahi ho gaya prabhu ..hehehehehe